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"An attempt to master this doctrine requires an immersion of all our senses, all our feelings, and all our intellect (p. 1).""The Atonement gives purpose and potency to every event in history (p. 3).""Certainly it was a great blessing to have the Savior personally preach his gospel message, but that was not the essential reason for which he came (p. 5).""The Atonement is not a prime teaching of the gospel; it is the heart of the gospel. It infuses into every doctrine, every principle, and every ordinance, transforming what might otherwise be a lofty but nonetheless lifeless ideal, to a vibrant virtual truth (p. 8).""Jesus himself is the gatekeeper and 'he employeth no servant there' (2 Nephi 9:41)....He waits for you 'with open arms (p. 29).'"After relating the story of there being no bread prepared for the Sacrament one Sunday, the question is asked, "How would it be if the sacrament table were empty today because there were no atonement (p. 54)?""We never find out the strength of the evil impulse inside us until we try to fight it: and Christ, because He was the only man who never yielded to temptation, is also the only man who knows to the full what temptation means--the only complete realist (C.S. Lewis, p. 108).""Not only did Jesus come as a universal gift, He came as an individual offering with a personal message to each one of us. For each one of us He died on Calvary and His blood will conditionally save us. Not as nations, communities or groups, but as individuals (President Heber J. Grant, p. 141).""There is no question: the Savior's suffering was infinite. He bore it all--knowingly, willingly, and lovingly (p. 153).""If sacrifice for others is the highest manifestation of love, then the Atonement of Jesus Christ is the grandest demonstration of love this world has ever known. The compelling, driving force behind his sacrifice was love, not duty or glory or honor or any other temporal reward. It was love in its purest, deepest, most enduring sense (p. 157).""God hear the cry of his Son in that moment of great grief and agony....In that moment when he might have saved his Son, I thank him and praise him that he did not fail us, for he had not only the love of his Son in mind, but he also had love for us (Elder Melvin J. Ballard, p. 162-3).""True repentance..is a melting, softening, refining process that brings about a mighty change of heart. It is manifest by those who come forth with broken hearts and contrite spirits. It is a burning resolve to make amends with God at any cost (p. 178).""At one point, after having scored the Hallelujah Chorus, [Handel] called to his servant and exclaimed, 'I did think I did see all Heaven before me, and the great God Himself.' Following one of the performances, a friend remarked that he had been entertained. Handel replied, 'I should be sorry if I only entertain them. I wish to make them better.' Likewise, the Savior is anxious that the Atonement make us better (P. 218).""It is a serious thing to live in a society of possible gods and goddesses....there are no ordinary people. You have never talked to a mere mortal (C.S. Lewis, p. 234).""As man now is, God once was: As God now is, man may be (President Lorenzo Snow, p. 236).""Power comes by obedience....'Except ye abide my law ye cannot attain to this glory' (D&C 132:20,21).""No man ought to say, 'Oh, I cannot help this; it is my nature.' He is not justified in it, for the reason that God has promised to give strength to correct these things, and to give gifts that will eradicate them (President George Q. Cannon, p. 273).""'I'll tell you what, dear. Let's try a different arrangement. You give me everything you've got, the whole sixty-one cents, and a hug and a kiss, and this bike is yours.' The bicycle was certainly not totally earned by the young girl, but nonetheless, it was gladly given by a father who recognized she had given her all (p. 311).""All of God's faculties, all of his inclinations are poised and bent on blessing at the slightest provocation. Oh, how God loves to be merciful and bless his children! Perhaps that is his greatest joy. It is that inherent quality that drives him with tireless vigilance to save his children (p. 313)."
"Each of us has, to one degree or another, a form of spiritual leprosy--sins that have blotted, defaces, and eaten away at our spiritual well-being. Such a condition makes us unclean in the presence of the Holy One, and like the lepers of the ancient Israelite village, we too must stand off in the spiritual distance until the day of our cleansing. Not unlike the ten lepers, we cry out, 'Jesus, Master, have mercy on us (p. 333).'"