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Faith Is Not Blind

Bruce C. Hafen,

Marie K. Hafen

4.45 · Rating details · 670 ratings · 195 reviews

We often encounter unexpected questions and complexities that can challenge our faith. Faith Is Not Blind offers fresh concepts and tools that will help readers learn from these experiences, rather than feeling disillusioned by them.

Award-winning authors Bruce and Marie Hafen draw upon a lifetime of experience in Church service, college teaching, and parenthood to help rea

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Feb 22, 2019 Paul Rasmussen rated it really liked it · review of another edition

Shelves: religious, self-help, nonfiction

Powerful ideas with application beyond faith. Embracing simplicity is good, seeking to understand complexity is necessary, and the harmony between the two bring richness, perspective, and balance into our experiences.

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Jul 19, 2019 Kristine rated it it was ok · review of another edition

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I would recommend this book to regular members looking to inoculate themselves against potentially faith shaking information, or for people who have stumbled across troubling information and do not want to research more but would like their faith fortified. DO NOT GIVE THIS TO FRIENDS/FAMILY MEMBERS WHO HAVE LEFT OR HAVE GONE DOWN A SERIOUS RABBIT HOLE OF DOUBT. IT WILL NOT HELP. If I would have read it in the middle of my spiral it would have pushed me farther away. In my opinion Planted by Pat ...more

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Apr 15, 2019 Donna rated it really liked it · review of another edition

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This one started off slow for me.....I was seriously wondering if I was going to finish it. But I'm happy to say that I ended up really enjoying this one. The authors had some original ideas on faith, seeking answers, and testimonies. When talking about questions one might have about their religion, the authors emphasized how web surfing for answers, while it isn't a bad idea per se, one needs to exercise caution. I thought that was great advice, because you can find all kinds of opinions on the ...more

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Jan 27, 2019 Spencer rated it liked it · review of another edition

I think his(/her?) intended audience is - people who struggle with particular issues regarding mormonism but still agree to its basic epistemological axioms? He outlines 3 stages of faith but these arent like Fowlers stages of faith. This is sort of the 3 stages of the orthodox.
Stage 1- child faith
Stage 2- you learn abt the deseret alphabet or whatever and will yourself to “shelve it”
Stage 3- child faith
It seems like a similar pattern could be used by muslims or evangelicals or whoever might fin ...more

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Dec 21, 2018 Sara rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

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This is a very brief but deeply thoughtful book for those struggling with matters of faith. Makes you ponder over what you truly believe and hope for—a profound book. Feel as if I have learned much in ways I had never fully considered before.

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Dec 16, 2019 Chad King rated it liked it

I really enjoy Bruce Hafen's writing (The Broken Heart was one of his best), but I felt like this book did not meet the high bar established by his other books. The premise of the book is interesting and worthwhile: How can a thinking person evaluate and wrestle with difficult questions and still retain faith? It's a great question, especially in today's world where anyone with the Internet can face a barrage of faith-challenging statements and questions on a daily basis.

Unfortunately, the book I really enjoy Bruce Hafen's writing (The Broken Heart was one of his best), but I felt like this book did not meet the high bar established by his other books. The premise of the book is interesting and worthwhile: How can a thinking person evaluate and wrestle with difficult questions and still retain faith? It's a great question, especially in today's world where anyone with the Internet can face a barrage of faith-challenging statements and questions on a daily basis.

Unfortunately, the book never reaches its potential. The problem, I believe, is that Hafen never clearly identifies his audience. At times it felt like he was writing to a believer who has friends or family struggling with questions. At other times it felt like he was writing to a believer who is beginning to doubt. And at other times it felt like he was writing to someone who is in the middle of a serious faith crisis. The challenge for the reader is that Hafen doesn't speak to these audiences directly and doesn't make it easy for a reader to figure out which audience is being addressed.

Here's an example: in Chapter 12 he shares a story of a missionary named Zachary who decides to take the side of Korihor and challenge Alma's statement that all things testify of Christ. Hafen writes "Alma answered this challenge by referencing the scriptures, the testimonies of the prophets, and the creation of the earth itself (see Alma 30:44). After seriously searching for a response, Zachary, like Korihor, found that he had no countering evidence—could give no rebuttal. He sat there stupefied." To a believing member (the likely audience here) this story might be a powerful example of Alma's response and testimony, but a skeptic might respond by saying a 20 year-old missionary without access to research tools or the Internet might easily be stupefied. Where did he search? For how long? Did he really have no rebuttal? Compare that with a story in Chapter 10 about a 12 year-old boy who prayed over a dead calf and it came back to life, but the boy (now a man telling the story many years later) admits he probably would not have the faith to say that prayer as his older, wiser, and less naive self. Doubters might see themselves in this story, where a believer might not.

The result of all this is a somewhat muddled collection of stories and ideas that never quite hits home. There are some shining points in the book and a few quotable blurbs, but the book is not what it could have been.

Given that the book feels like it's aimed at multiple audiences, I would hesitate to share this with someone who is experiencing a faith crisis since they might interpret portions of it as critical or overly simplistic (see the story of Zachary mentioned above). However, it would be a decent option for someone watching loved ones struggle with faith issues. For those who are doubting, a better choice might be Dew's Worth the Wrestle or Mason's Planted. ...more

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Nov 11, 2019 Krisette Spangler rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

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This was a great book to help people examine what faith means. I loved it, because the Hafens describe three different types of faith. Many accuse Christians of following their leaders blindly, but Hafen tells how many have faith in Christ born of trials and afflictions that allow them to accept the teachings of the scriptures in a child like fashion. I loved this book and plan to visit it again in a few years.

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Jun 05, 2019 Suzette Kunz rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

An excellent book on navigating a life of faith in a difficult world. I really appreciate the Hafen's spiritual and intellectual insight. There's so much food for thought here, I'm sure I'll read it again. ...more

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Apr 12, 2020 Brenda Daun rated it really liked it · review of another edition

This was a profound book about the different stages of faith that felt so relatable to my experience. I could see this being a helpful read for anyone who feels like they’re going through a crisis of faith.

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Jul 06, 2019 Susan rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

First half of the book didn’t grab me much (ideas I’ve heard before), but I loved the second half. Very helpful guide to help us understand what is happening to us spiritually when we encounter the complexities of faith and where those complexities will lead us, depending on how we respond to them. This book is consistent with my belief that a so-called faith crisis can actually be one of the best things to happen to us, if we stay in the passageway.

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Mar 07, 2019 Amy rated it really liked it · review of another edition

An easy to read and follow non fiction book detailing the way faith evolves through the years. It begins by explaining how we all start out with a simple faith, which becomes more complex as we face questions, concerns, life experiences. Perhaps you are confronted with doctrine or history you were previously unaware of and find yourself in some kind of crisis. Sometimes I think we find ourselves struggling at Church due to 'people issues' and its easy (I know been there got that t-shirt) - to mi ...more

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Mar 07, 2019 Rosa rated it it was ok

Meh, the first half caused me to do some really deep breathing. His intent was obviously to encourage, but it felt like gaslighting to me. I'm not a fan of anything that says, "church is never responsible for decreasing your faith." Yup, faith is personal. It's something only you can dictate--but also, seriously, going to church with humans is the hardest thing you'll ever do. People are horrible, and cultural norms are really how we get to hate and lynchings, murder, and suicidal tendencies...s ...more

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Dec 18, 2018 Adam rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

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I'm joining with the other ratings to give 5 stars to this fabulous book. It's not necessarily perfect, but it is so, so good. The Hafen's do so well using their simple model of Idealist Simplicity to Realist Complexity to Meek Simplicity to explain what often happens when questions come up in the gospel. Some of the chapters I bookmarked as go-to resources for the future. It's a great, great book to turn to repeatedly. ...more

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Mar 14, 2019 Lee rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

So many good examples and thoughts in this book. I absolutely loved the quote by Oliver Wendell Holmes that served as a basis for the book, "For the simplicity on this side of complexity, I wouldn't give you a fig. But for the simplicity on the other side of complexity, for that I would give you anything I have." There is so much that that perspective has unlocked for me, not just in the realm of faith, but relationships as well.

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Jul 12, 2020 Diane rated it really liked it · review of another edition

This was a thought provoking book for me. I enjoyed it and took time to reevaluate some things in my life, questioning where I categorize myself as a spiritual, faith-led person. I appreciated the examples concerning "gap questions" (where we are and where we want to be). Am I someone who's attitude fits in the category of "my ward is the best, my friends are the best, my family is the best, every day is the best" mentality? My cheerful, optimistic and relaxed attitude may help me weather many s This was a thought provoking book for me. I enjoyed it and took time to reevaluate some things in my life, questioning where I categorize myself as a spiritual, faith-led person. I appreciated the examples concerning "gap questions" (where we are and where we want to be). Am I someone who's attitude fits in the category of "my ward is the best, my friends are the best, my family is the best, every day is the best" mentality? My cheerful, optimistic and relaxed attitude may help me weather many storms that seem "formidable to those of a less sunny disposition." Or do I see the gap, but choose to ignore it? "Cling(ing) to the ideal so single-mindedly that (I) just don't feel the discomfort that comes from facing the real facts about (myself), about others, or about the world around (me)." Is this gap too raw, "pushing (me) into a sense of denial that filters out painful realities"?

"Only when we see both the real and the ideal can we deal with the gap in a constructive way. If we don't grapple with the frustration that comes from facing bravely the uncertainties we encounter, we will lack the deep roots of spiritual maturity. If we don't see the problems that exist, we won't be able to help solve them."

It was helpful to reflect on the noise in the world and the noise in me-self doubt, mental & physical health challenges, worries, etc.

Choosing between two goods is more difficult than choosing when we see an obvious contrast between good and evil. But learning to make such choices is essential to our spiritual maturity.

I also reflected on the idea of blind obedience. I do believe there are many times throughout my life when I follow or obey, simply because I trust the person who's leading. But to me it is a "knowing and trusting kind of obedience" not blind. When I believe in something, it is because I have used all the tools of an educated, critical mind and attitude along with my "confidence in the ideal". This allows me to have "informed faith".

When I came to the part of mature simplicity, I felt it means being a true disciple in the realm of faith in God and Jesus Christ. "It is not so much about what one does or how one thinks, but about who and what one is-and is becoming." Throughout my life, there have been times where I have gradually shifted emphasis, like Elder Neal A. Maxwell, from the "large scale macro concerns about social problems to the more focused, personal micro concerns of how to live (my life)." Of course the macro problems matter, but the micro problems are the ones I can do the most about. "...the gospel's way of changing the individual is the only lasting way to change society...In the end there are no hyphenated words like disciple-scholar. If we are not finally true disciples, it won't matter much what else we are."

Reading about Elder Maxwell's son's response to his father's final months of life, was helpful in reminding me to "live in a better way now-closer to what he called the 'things of eternity.'" Keeping an eternal perspective has helped me cope with the tragedies of life, along with the joys and unexpected events.

"Learning from experience teaches us in ways nothing else can. God consciously took the risk that some of His children wouldn't come back. Even the Savior had to undergo trials of mortality-without shortcuts. Only by 'reason of use' can we exercise our senses to truly understand both good and evil."

It is through my failures and successes that I have learned the most about myself and others. I have also come to know God better, appreciate His mercy and justice, His Son's redeeming power in my life.

I have also come to realize that "not all uncertainties need to be resolved intellectually. Blind faith is simple, easy, and ultimately dangerous, but the benefit of the doubt is something earned by thought and experience that is then lovingly given to others, because you love and trust (others and God)."

When there are unsettling questions and concerns and I've gathered all the evidence possible with still no clear answer, I can remember Moroni's promise in the Book of Mormon (Moro 10:4-5). "I would exhort you that when ye shall read these things...that ye would remember how merciful the Lord hath been unto the children of men, from...Adam (until now)...and ponder it in your hearts."

Finally, the scriptures are full of "proving periods" in various characters' lives. Shadrach, Meshack, and Abednego were saved from the flames but Abinadi was burned. Alma returned to the faith due to the prayers of his father while Laman and Lemuel continued to stray. 2,000 stripling warriors were wounded but never killed while 1,005 Anti-Nephi-Lehies were slain by the sword. Ammon brought thousands to repentance but Mormon & Moroni labored all their days and never saw the fruits of their labor. "For every 'thy will be done" in submission to the agony of Gethsemane, there is a prayer too powerful to be recorded, the blessing of children one by one, angels descending from the opened heavens, and tears streaming down the face (of)...One who can finally declare full joy."

Non-contingent trust does not depend on certain expected blessings. So with that type of trust, I can endure any trial. The fruits of the gospel, of intensely personal convictions have developed in me for many years. Due to that, I follow my leaders, learn all I can for myself, and trust God in the "gap" periods of my life. ...more

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Feb 04, 2019 Lindsay rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

I listened to it on my Deseret Book app, but I may have to purchase a hard copy so I can mark it up. Great book with wonderful insights, especially the simplicity, complexity, simplicity concept. Makes perfect sense!

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Jun 09, 2020 Ann Lewis rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

Hafen writes:
"Salvation and exaltation are not just abstract goals. Those terms describe an entire process that requires growth, development, and change. Central to that growth process is mortality’s unique opportunity to let us learn by experience–by practice–which is the only way we can develop capacities and skills. We’re not here just to learn facts and absorb information. There is something about forcing people to be righteous that interferes with, even prohibits, the process that righteou ...more

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Mar 15, 2021 Kelsey rated it really liked it · review of another edition

Great book. :) 4.5 Stars - Took off half a star because it was a smidge dull in terms of tone. But if very analytical is your thing it won’t bother you.

It totally slashed the myth that scholarship and faith cannot coincide. Hafen lays out the argument that questions, doubts, or issues with Church, God, Joseph Smith, Church History etc. don’t have to shake your faith.

He makes you want to be the type of person who doesn’t just sit comfortably in (what some people call) “blind obedience” or “simpl ...more

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Sep 30, 2020 Stephanie rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

This book explores the nuances of faith and doubt. There is no one perfect way to address anyone’s doubts or struggling when it comes to their personal faith, but this book does a great job of identifying the many common things that can erode our faith, and it presents several strategies and reasons to choose faith anyway. The whole book is built around the theme of finding simplicity on the other side of complexity, which resonated with me. Childhood, black-and-white faith always comes up again ...more

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Aug 06, 2019 Brooke rated it really liked it · review of another edition

While the book contains less than 150 pages, it took me several weeks to read it. I enjoyed his theories on faith and thought the book was well researched and beautifully written, but I found it easy to get lost in the depths of his analysis. I found myself having to read and re-read passages over and over again to grasp what he was saying. Definitely recommend but it’s not light reading.

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Jan 30, 2022 Thom Archibald rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

I love the concept of the three phases of faith, and knowing that complexities are part of life. It really helped me to see that questions and difficulties are a natural part of our faith journey, and, if treated properly, can serve to strengthen us against future storms. Powerful concepts applied in many real-world scenarios in meaningful ways.

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Mar 22, 2019 Eloise rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

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Some of the material in this book is found in more detail in the Hafens's other writings. I love the concepts explored in this little book and will probably read it again. I found the last chapter particularly inspiring. ...more

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Sep 10, 2019 Jessica Blackburn rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

This book perfectly fell into my hands exactly when I needed it most. I was in tears by page two because of how clearly it spoke to my soul. A great way to open your mind, and for me, label my thoughts into organized categories to calm the chaos of faith-testing mental conversations I tend to have with myself.

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Dec 26, 2021 Patsy rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

Early in the book, the Hafens quote T. S. Eliot: "We shall not cease from exploration./ And the end of all our exploring/ Will be to arrive where we started / And know the place for the first time." They present a model for faith growth, beginning with innocent, untried simplicity; growing to realist complexity; continuing into a meek, mature simplicity. I found this book to be inspirational and aspirational. There is so much to learn and to become. ...more

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Jun 02, 2019 Layne rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

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Excellent book. Well written. It addresses the problems of faith and doubt in today's world. Read it, then give a copy to all of the 20-35 year olds that you know. ...more

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Jun 09, 2019 Wendy Jensen rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

Written for members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, “Faith Is Not Blind” thoughtfully explores the truth that faith sees, faith hears and faith speaks. Inspiring!

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Jul 07, 2021 Hannah Brown rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

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This book healed my soul, opened my mind and deepened my faith. I will read this book over and over throughout my life.

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Jan 30, 2020 Sara rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

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Hafen continues to be one of my favorite LDS authors/philosophers. Plus, this was a pretty short book.

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Jun 21, 2021 Catherine Sullivan rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

Another good resource for thinking about faith issues and faith journeys.

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Jan 17, 2021 Melanie rated it it was amazing · review of another edition

This book was absolutely amazing. It was a lot to chew on, so despite it's length, it took a while to finish. The Hafens reminded my heart of so many beautiful truths. An absolute must-read. ...more

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Bruce C. Hafen has been a member of the First Quorum of the Seventy since 1996, having served recently as Area President of the Australia/New Zealand area. Earlier he was president of Ricks College, Dean of the BYU Law School, and the number two administrator (Provost) at BYU. Elder Hafen is known to Deseret Book readers for his frequent Ensign articles and his bestselling trilogy on the Atonement ...more

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